Essential Trick-or-Treat Safety Tips for Teens
Giving your teen the tools they need to be safe on Halloween helps keep the night fun! Image Credit: Shutterstock/Nataliya Arzamasova
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Having a teen who still wants to go trick-or-treating is a weirdly great feeling. They're not too cool for candy yet (but neither are you). Still, that excitement usually comes with a little worry too. Teens don't want you hovering, and you don't want to be "that mom," but you also can't just wave them off into the dark with a pillowcase and a prayer. Here's how to help keep them safe on Halloween without making them feel like you’re doing too much.
Plan a Set Trick-or-Treating Route
Knowing which neighborhoods your teen and their friends are hitting up can take a lot of the guesswork out of your night. You probably already know which streets to steer clear of (and your kids definitely already know which houses hand out the full-size candy bars). Having a rough route mapped out means you can relax a little more, and if curfew comes and goes with no teen in sight, you'll know exactly where to start looking. A few things worth thinking through before they head out:
How well-lit is the neighborhood?
Do you have friends or family in the area?
Are there any major obstacles or hazards (train tracks, busy intersections, etc.)?
Will they be stopping at any friends’ houses in the neighborhood while they’re out?
Once you've got a route in mind, you can figure out whether they need a ride or if walking makes more sense.
Give them Teen-Friendly Safety Gear for Halloween
Your teen is not going to want to wear a glow stick necklace (well, maybe they do… it doesn’t hurt to ask). But there's still plenty of safety gear that won't get an eye roll. A portable phone charger tucked into their candy bag means their phone won't die right when you need to reach them, and a small flashlight comes in handy on streets without much lighting. A few strips of reflective tape on their shoes or trick-or-treat bags help them stay visible once the sun goes down. It's also worth having them download a panic alarm app, like My SOS Family Emergency Alerts, just in case they ever need it.
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Set Up a Halloween Text Check-In Plan
Trick-or-treating isn't like other activities where your kid stays in one spot. They're moving around all night, which means you don't always know where they are. A simple check-in plan fixes that. Have them text when they arrive, maybe once around the halfway point, and again when they're wrapping up. That gives you enough peace of mind without making them feel tracked. Texting every 15 minutes is probably asking too much (and they'll ignore it anyway). If they do miss a check-in, then you can call to check up on them.
Send Them Out With Their Group
Not everyone loves opening the door to a group of teenagers on Halloween, and that's just the reality of the situation. A little etiquette coaching goes a long way toward keeping the night fun for everyone. Here are a few things to go over with them before they head out for the :
Go Over Trick-or-Treating Etiquette
Unfortunately, not everyone is thrilled to see teens at their doors on Halloween. This is a bummer for kids, but it’s just a fact of life. Giving your teens some Halloween etiquette tips can go a long way toward them having a fun, safe night. Here are some things to go over:
Only ring doorbells with the porch light on. Houses that are decorated and lit up are usually happy to see trick-or-treaters.
Say "trick-or-treat" and "thank you" at every house. Good manners tend to win people over, even the skeptics.
If someone says they're too old, shrug it off and move on. It happens, and it's not worth a scene.
Let younger kids go first. Little ones can be shy around "big kids," and a little kindness goes a long way toward making them feel welcome.
Keep the noise down. It's Halloween, not a concert. Screaming and yelling can genuinely spook younger trick-or-treaters and some adults too.
Other etiquette tips are the same as tips for everyday life (like not throwing candy wrappers on the ground). You know your teens know how to be on their best behavior, but just a few gentle reminders as they relate to Halloween can be super helpful.
Have a Halloween Escape Plan Ready
Sometimes teens end up somewhere they don't want to be, and that includes Halloween. Maybe a friend group gets upset, or someone starts doing something that makes everyone else feel uncomfortable (or, even worse, feel unsafe). Make sure your teen knows they can always call or text for a ride, no explanation required. A code word or phrase makes asking for an out easier and doesn’t raise any eyebrows in the friend group. Something as simple as "I forgot my keys" can mean "come get me now," and when you get that text, you go, no questions asked.
Balancing Independence and Safety
You want your teen to feel trusted and independent, but you also want them home safe by the end of the night. Giving them the tools they need to be safe while away from home is one way to do just that, but yes, it’s still going to be hard for you to watch them go out on their own. Just know you’ve done everything you can to help them become their best independent self.
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